What parent can forget the whoosh, whoosh, whoosh when you hear your baby’s heartbeat for the first time? Well for starters, my husband. It was my 12-week check-up and my husband had asked if he needed to come. I told him it was OK; it would probably be a routine, uneventful appointment (what did I know?). When the doctor asked if I wanted to hear the heartbeat, I realized my oversight. A combination of his missing our first pregnancy milestone and the hormones were enough to leave me crying in the car. Here are five ways you can involve your partner in your pregnancy.